okay, LJG, time to move on and find someone else,
THIS! I mean from his books and various mentions in the OL books he’s clearly getting his physical needs met elsewhere. But HOW LONG can you love someone who doesn’t love you without it being ridiculous–at some point I want him to shake himself and say “hmmm, perhaps these feelings aren’t healthy!”
Maybe that’s why I am ambivalent about him. He seems to be rather ambivalent about himself.