Terry Dresbach

Outlander Costume Designer

Reply To: The Big O


Replying to myself…

I KNOW that human anatomy isn’t standard. I had a rather fascinating discussion with my sister about ‘scissoring’ following the Orange is the New Black episode where it figured and she said there’s this whole thing in the lesbian community where people either say “yes you can” or “no you can’t” and people are very unwilling to admit the other side could have a point. She said she read something that said basically “if you’re lucky enough that your anatomy happens to be in the right spot scissoring works fine; if you’re not built that way it won’t happen. C’est la vie.)

ETA: replying to myself again. I turn 40 in two days. I’ve been married for 14 years. I had many lovers before I married my husband. So how come it’s still embarrassing to talk about orgasms?

  • This reply was modified 7 years, 7 months ago by rachely.