This is the worst. It has been a blot on culture since women entered the work force, especially when women started to take on highly-male controlled industries, the law being one of the biggest and most pervasive.
My only comment, which can hardly be described as advise because I wont pretend to know what it would be like to be a woman of color in that culture, is this: don’t compromise, live your truth, and find community. Community-whether it be with like minded women or allied men, is HUGE.
my love and support!
also: FUCK them.